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Why Men Need Mental Health Support:

Mental health care for men isn’t just important—it’s essential. Men are at greater risk of ignoring their emotional struggles, but addressing mental health issues early can improve not only individual well-being but also overall life satisfaction. Men often feel a strong sense of responsibility to take care of their families, perform at work, and remain “strong” in the face of adversity. But the truth is, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. If you would like to know more keep reading below.

The moment you begin to think differently, your brain begins to change. If you can change your mind, you can change your life. You can literally rewire your brain to overcome mental health challenges like anxiety, depression, or trauma.

Dr. Joe Dispenza, Neuroscientist and Author

Male Brain Structure

Research indicates that men’s brains are wired differently from women’s, which can influence how they experience and process emotions.

Men tend to have larger amygdalas, the brain region involved in emotional processing, which can make them more susceptible to certain types of emotional responses.

However, they also have less gray matter in the prefrontal cortex (the brain area involved in decision-making and emotional regulation), which may affect their ability to regulate emotions effective.

Study: “Sex differences in the brain and how they affect mental health” by Daniel J. Leuchter, MD et al. (2020).

Key Findings: This study found that male brains tend to have higher levels of testosterone, which can influence behaviors like aggression, risk-taking, and emotional responses to stress. Men also have a lower emotional awareness and a tendency to externalize emotions, making them more prone to substance abuse, anger, and other forms of emotional dysregulation. This suggests that men may benefit from therapy that addresses emotion regulation and stress management.

  • Study: “The effect of emotional suppression on the stress response in men” by Andrew J. G. Green, Ph.D. (2014).
  • Key Findings: This research explored how emotional suppression in men activates the amygdala and reduces prefrontal cortex activity, which impairs their ability to regulate stress. When men suppress emotions, they are more likely to experience higher levels of chronic stress and anxiety, leading to potential burnout, addiction, and relationship difficulties.
  • Implication for Therapy: Men may benefit from therapeutic modalities like somatic therapy and body-focused techniques, which help release suppressed emotions without requiring extensive verbal processing of the past.

3. The Role of Testosterone in Men’s Mental Health

Testosterone, the dominant male sex hormone, plays a significant role in regulating mood and stress responses. Low levels of testosterone have been linked to depression, anxiety, and a reduced ability to cope with stress. Men with low testosterone may struggle with low energy, irritability, and sadness, but these symptoms are often overlooked or misattributed to other causes.

  • Study: “Testosterone and Depression: Systematic Review and Meta-Analysis” by M. Zarrouf et al. (2009).
  • Key Findings: The research shows a strong link between low testosterone levels and depression in men. The study suggests that improving testosterone levels can help alleviate depression, especially when combined with emotional therapy.

4. Neuroplasticity in Men: Rewiring the Brain for Emotional Healing

Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s ability to reorganise itself by forming new neural connections. Research suggests that men’s brains, like women’s, are capable of rewiring. Men, particularly those who experience trauma or chronic stress, can experience positive changes in the brain’s stress response system through therapeutic intervention.

  • Study: “Neuroplasticity and the therapeutic brain: The role of therapy in rewiring male brain responses” by Sarah A. Lutz, PhD (2018).
  • Key Findings: Lutz’s research indicates that therapy, including approaches like trauma-focused therapy and neurofeedback, can facilitate the brain’s neuroplasticity by helping men break old patterns of emotional repression and stress responses.
  • Livvy uses principals of somatic experiencing and perception repatterning techniques (PRT) to help men release deeply held trauma and reprogram their brain’s reaction to stress.

5. The Impact of Trauma on Men’s Brains

Research shows that men who have experienced trauma (especially early life trauma) may have altered brain structures related to stress response and emotional regulation, particularly in areas like the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus. These changes can manifest in mental health challenges such as PTSD, depression, and addiction.

  • Study: “The Impact of Trauma on Brain Structure and Function in Men” by Elizabeth P. Hovens et al. (2015).
  • Key Findings: Hovens’ research found that men with PTSD often have smaller hippocampal volumes, which is associated with difficulties in processing and integrating emotional experiences. The research also suggests that men with trauma histories may have hyperactive amygdalas, leading to heightened emotional responses to stress and difficulty calming down after distressing events.
  • Implication for Therapy: Men experiencing trauma may benefit from trauma-informed therapy, including somatic experiencing and brain integration. These modalities help to address the brain’s response to trauma, allowing the person to process their feelings and re-regulate their nervous system without being overwhelmed by distressing memories.

6. Men and Addiction: The Brain’s Reward System

Addiction is often tied to the brain’s dopamine system, which rewards behaviour that gives pleasure. Men are more likely to turn to substances (alcohol, drugs, etc.) or behaviours (over-eating, gambling, pornography) to cope with stress, trauma, or emotional dysregulation. Therapy that targets both the brain’s reward pathways and emotional triggers can be highly effective in helping men break free from addiction.

  • Study: “Addiction and the Male Brain: How Men’s Brains Respond to Drugs and Therapy” by Marc N. Potenza, MD, PhD (2014).
  • Key Findings: Potenza’s study found that men’s brains show a stronger response to rewards like drugs and alcohol, which can create a more difficult cycle to break. However, the study also highlights that men can successfully retrain their brains and create healthier emotional responses that reduce dependency on substances or risky behaviours.
  • Implication for Therapy: Therapy for men struggling with addiction can be more effective if it includes a combination of brain-based techniques (e.g., brain integration or PRT) and body based tools like somatics. This dual approach helps men not only address the underlying psychological factors but also re-wire the brain’s reward system.

Research shows that men’s brains are biologically wired to respond to stress, trauma, and emotional challenges in ways that often differ from women’s, but they are just as capable of healing. Effective mental health support for men should address both the emotional and biological aspects of mental health. Therapeutic interventions like PRT, Somatic Experiencing, and brain integration target these brain regions, helping men heal from emotional wounds without the need for extensive talking or rehashing traumatic memories. By incorporating neuroplasticity and brain-based treatments, men can experience long-lasting emotional resilience and improved mental health.

Neuroplasticity: It’s Never Too Late to Heal

The human brain is extraordinary. For much of history, scientists believed that the brain’s structure and abilities were fixed—what you were born with was what you had for life. If you struggled with mental health, whether it was anxiety, depression, trauma, or addiction, the prevailing thought was that you’d always carry those scars. However, more advanced scientific investigation have shattered this belief, revealing that our brains are incredibly malleable. This remarkable ability is known as neuroplasticity.

“The brain doesn’t just store information—it processes and rewires itself based on new habits and experiences. Every act of mental discipline, mindfulness, or self-compassion can help you reprogram your brain to be more resilient and healthier.”

Dr. Kelly McGonigal, Health Psychologist and Author of The Willpower Instinct

Neuroplasticity refers to the brain’s ability to reorganise itself by forming new neural connections throughout life. It means that the brain can rewire itself in response to experience, learning, and therapy. This is powerful news for men struggling with mental health challenges—it means that healing and change are always possible, no matter how old you are or how long you’ve been struggling.

The Brain’s Ability to Heal

When we experience emotional distress, trauma, or mental health challenges, certain areas of our brain can become overactive, underactive, or stuck in patterns that reinforce negative thoughts, behaviours, and emotions. These neural patterns can create feelings of being stuck—like nothing will ever change. For instance:

  • Chronic stress can lead to elevated cortisol levels, which affect memory and emotional regulation.
  • Trauma can impact the amygdala, the brain’s fear center, making it overactive and hypersensitive to perceived threats.
  • Negative thinking patterns can be reinforced through the prefrontal cortex, making it harder to break free from feelings of hopelessness or self-doubt.

This is where therapy and neuroplasticity come in. Just as negative patterns of thinking and behaviour can be reinforced, new patterns can also be created. Therapy doesn’t just focus on talking through problems—it helps retrain the brain to form new neural connections that support healthier emotional responses and behaviours.

How Therapy Works with Neuroplasticity

Therapy is not just about discussing problems or trying to make sense of your past. It is a transformative process that taps into the brain’s ability to adapt and heal through the following mechanisms:

1. Rewiring Negative Thought Patterns

When you repeatedly engage in negative thinking—such as believing you’re not good enough or that things will never improve—your brain forms neural connections that reinforce those thoughts. Therapy, such as Perception Retpatterning Technquie (PRT), helps break these negative thought cycles. By identifying and challenging distorted thinking patterns and replacing them with healthier, more balanced neural connections and beliefs.

2. Healing Through Somatic Practices

Our bodies hold the memories of our experiences. The brain and the body are deeply connected, and trauma can manifest not only in our thoughts but also in our physical sensations. Somatic therapies—like Somatic Experiencing or body-focused techniques—help men to process trauma by releasing stored physical tension and emotional blockages. These therapies can stimulate neuroplasticity by helping the brain process and integrate unresolved emotional experiences.

“Emotions are not just in the brain—they are in the body as well. We have the power to change how we react to emotions by rewiring the brain through body-based therapies and practices that integrate mind and body.”

Dr. Candace Pert, Neuroscientist and Author of Molecules of Emotion

4. Trauma Integration Through Movement

Eye and body Movements help the brain reprocess traumatic memories. Bilateral stimulation (like eye movements or cross body movements), allows the brain to integrate painful memories and experiences in a healthier way, creating new neural pathways that reduce emotional charge.

It’s Never Too Late to Rewire Your Brain

Whether you’re in your 20s or your 80s, your brain has the ability to learn, heal, and create new pathways.

You are never too old, and it is never too late to begin therapy. Even if you’ve struggled with mental health challenges for years, neuroplasticity shows that you can change, and you can improve your mental and emotional well-being with the right support.

Why Therapy is Effective: It’s Not Just About Talking

Some people hesitate to start therapy because they fear it will require endless talking about the past, rehashing old wounds, or dredging up painful memories. The truth is, effective therapy doesn’t always require constant verbal processing. Many of the techniques we use in therapy—PRT, Somatic Experiencing, and Brain Integration—focus on healing the brain through experiential or body-centered methods, which don’t always involve talking at all.

  • Somatic techniques help release trauma stored in the body without the need to discuss every detail of the past.
  • Brain integration focuses on processing memories through bilateral stimulation rather than discussing painful emotions at length.
  • Perception Repatterning Technique (PRT) focuses on changing thought and belief patterns rather than reliving trauma.

This is important because it shows that healing doesn’t always require constant emotional overload—it can happen in ways that feel manageable and empowering.

How Therapy Facilitates Lasting Change

The process of neuroplasticity doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time, patience, and consistent practice. But with each session, each new skill you learn, and each technique you practice, your brain is gradually rewiring itself. Over time, the neural pathways that supported old, unhelpful behaviors and thoughts begin to fade, and healthier connections emerge.

Here’s how therapy fosters lasting change:

  1. Building New Neural Pathways: Every time you learn a new way of thinking, feeling, or behaving, your brain forms new connections, replacing old patterns.
  2. Strengthening Positive Changes: The more you practice, the stronger these positive pathways become, making it easier to navigate life with new coping skills and healthier emotional responses.
  3. Creating Emotional Resilience: Therapy helps you become more adaptable to stress, improving your ability to bounce back from challenges and setbacks with greater emotional resilience.

It’s never too late to start. You don’t need to feel stuck in negative patterns forever. You have the power to change, and therapy is a powerful tool to help you harness the brain’s incredible ability to heal and grow.

Let’s begin the journey together—rewire your brain, transform your emotional health, and experience the relief and freedom that comes with a healthier, more empowered mind.

“Real strength comes from the courage to face one’s struggles head-on, not from hiding them.”
Dr. William Pollack, Real Boys: Rescuing Our Sons from the Myths of Boyhood (1998)

What Are the Common Challenges Men Face?

Understanding the unique mental health challenges men face is the first step toward addressing them. Some of the most common issues include:

  • Pressure to Conform to Masculine Norms: Traditional societal expectations of masculinity often discourage men from expressing vulnerability, sadness, or emotional pain. The cultural pressure to “tough it out” or “man up” can make it harder for men to recognize or seek help for mental health struggles.
  • Relationship Stress: Whether it’s pressure in romantic relationships, struggles with fatherhood, or difficulties in friendships, relationship issues can weigh heavily on a man’s mental health. Conflict or lack of connection can lead to emotional isolation, anxiety, and even depression.
  • Work-related Stress: Men often feel a significant amount of stress related to their career or providing for their families. Work-related burnout, financial concerns, and job dissatisfaction can all contribute to anxiety and depression in men.
  • Trauma and PTSD: Men are more likely to experience traumatic events, especially related to violence or accidents. This can lead to post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which often manifests as anger, irritability, or avoidance, making it harder to recognize in traditional clinical settings.

It’s Time for Men to Prioritize Their Mental Health

Taking the first step toward mental health support might feel challenging, but it’s one of the best investments you can make in your overall well-being. Whether it’s stress, depression, anxiety, or unresolved trauma, therapy can help you navigate these difficulties in a way that suits your life, your preferences, and your pace. A few areas that you can expect to feel relief and improvement:

  • Relationships and Communication: Strengthen your connections with better communication skills, whether it’s with your partner, family, or colleagues.
  • Emotional Resilience: Develop the tools to handle life’s ups and downs more effectively, managing stress, anxiety, and emotional regulation.
  • Work-Life Balance: Find the sweet spot between work and personal life, managing work-related stress, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care.
  • Self-Esteem and Confidence: Boost your self-esteem and self-confidence to enhance your relationships, career, and personal growth.
  • Grief and Loss: Coping with loss is never easy; we’re here to help you navigate the process and find healthy ways to remember and honor your loved ones.
  • Anger Management: Learn how to manage anger constructively, an essential skill for maintaining healthy relationships and emotional well-being.
  • Personal Growth: Set and achieve your goals, explore your passions, and find your purpose for a more fulfilling life.

It’s time to break the stigma and start the conversation about mental health—because your emotional well-being matters.

If you’re ready to take the next step in improving your mental health, contact us today. Together, we’ll find the right support and approach to help you thrive.


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What Will Happen in Therapy with Livvy for Men?

When you choose therapy with Livvy, you’re taking an important step toward prioritizing your emotional health and well-being. We’ll work together using a combination of pragmatic, effective techniques designed to help you process trauma, reframe limiting beliefs, and break free from addictive behaviors.

At first, you may not even know where to start—your pain is buried so deep you’ve forgotten it’s there. But once you take the first step and face that discomfort, you’ll discover something you never expected: peace. You don’t have to carry your trauma like armor anymore. You can finally put it down.”

— Dr. Mark Greene, The Hidden Face of Masculinity (2015)

These techniques can include somatic work, perception repatterning, and targeted addiction support, but it’s important to note that each therapy plan is tailored specifically to you. Together, we will identify which methods resonate with you, and adjust the approach to fit your individual needs. Therapy with Livvy isn’t a one-size-fits-all process—it’s dynamic and flexible to ensure that what we work on is most effective for your healing.

1. Trauma Release and Somatic Therapy (No Endless Talking)

Somatic Therapy is focused on the mind-body connection, understanding that emotional trauma is often stored in the body. Many men find it difficult to express their feelings verbally, and may even prefer not to delve into past experiences in great detail. With somatic techniques, you won’t need to spend hours talking about painful memories. Instead, we’ll focus on releasing stored tension and emotional blocks in your body through physical awareness.

These techniques might include:

  • Breathing exercises that help you release stress and promote relaxation.
  • Body movement and touch that enable you to let go of deep-seated emotional tension.
  • Grounding exercises to help you stay in the present moment and reduce feelings of anxiety or overwhelm.

The beauty of somatic therapy is that it’s tailored to you. If you find certain methods resonate with your experience, we’ll focus on those and adjust as needed. If something doesn’t work for you, we’ll explore alternative approaches. Therapy is about what works for you—not about following a prescribed formula.

2. PRT (Perception Repatterning Technique) – Changing Beliefs Without Re-examining Every Detail

Many men carry negative beliefs that affect how they view themselves, their relationships, and their lives. These beliefs can create cycles of self-doubt, anger, or emotional numbness. With Perception Repatterning Technique (PRT), we can address these beliefs without endlessly discussing the past. PRT focuses on reprogramming your beliefs to be healthier and more empowering, so you can break free from mental barriers that are holding you back.

PRT is a solution-focused technique that helps you:

  • Identify and challenge harmful beliefs like “I need to be tough all the time” or “I’m not good enough.”
  • Replace those beliefs with healthier, more realistic perceptions of yourself and your potential.
  • Create lasting changes in how you approach challenges and relationships.

PRT doesn’t require repeatedly talking about past traumas. We’ll focus on creating practical changes to your thinking and behavior in real-time, tailored to what will work best for you. If a particular method isn’t helpful, we’ll identify another approach together.

“As a man, you might feel like you’re supposed to be tough, like you’re supposed to be invulnerable. But let me tell you, when you finally open up in therapy, it will feel like you’ve let go of a burden you didn’t even know you were carrying. The relief is real, and it’s lasting.”

— Dr. Terrence Real, I Don’t Want to Talk About It (1997)

3. Targeted Support for Overcoming Addictions (No Need to Rehash Every Instance)

Addiction—whether to substances, behaviors, or unhealthy coping strategies—often stems from emotional pain, trauma, or unresolved stress. When working on overcoming addiction, we focus on understanding and addressing the root causes without needing to rehash every instance of the addiction. Therapy with Livvy is pragmatic and results-oriented. We’ll identify what triggers the addictive behaviors and focus on building healthier coping mechanisms.

Some of the techniques that can be used in addiction recovery include:

  • Mindfulness practices to help you stay aware of triggers and emotional states.
  • Behavioral modification to replace addiction with healthier habits.
  • Somatic techniques that help you manage cravings and emotional stress physically.

Livvy tailors to what feels right for you. If certain tools work well, we will build on those and adjust as we go. It’s about finding the most effective, individualised solutions for your unique challenges.

“At first, you may not even know where to start—your pain is buried so deep you’ve forgotten it’s there. But once you take the first step and face that discomfort, you’ll discover something you never expected: peace. You don’t have to carry your trauma like armor anymore. You can finally put it down.”

— Dr. Mark Greene, The Hidden Face of Masculinity (2015)

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